this is totally random but i just put another book on the shelf about marriage...and i just got really frustrated b.c its talking about all the hard things about marriage/not being prepared, etc. i feel like that's what i've been hearing from a lot of people. i wish someone would right a book about the good things of marriage, the joys. i know i know most of our culture doesn't get that its not like a fairy tale. but another huge chunk of our culture in response to the 'you need to be prepared/its a lot harder than you expect' is just saying well then let's not get married. it isn't worth it. can someone please tell me why it's worth getting married?! because i don't know what the reasons are. no one ever tells me. and if its so damn hard why in the world did God make it sound so joyful in genesis?? there has to be something about it that makes it worth doing.